98 things from this book went into her brain. Here are the first 6.
George Saintsbury argues that in Pride and Prejudice every scene earns its place, since hardly a character or incident could be cut without loss to the story.
George Saintsbury holds that living characters and sharp dialogue matter more than a neat plot, because a badly built novel with real people beats a faultless plot acted by puppets.
George Saintsbury says that seeing mixed motives and noticing that seeming is not being is not cynicism, but the ordinary sense of a person who knows the world.
George Saintsbury praises Austen for joining humanity to art, where small, unforced true strokes build a whole picture and nothing in it is false or superfluous.
George Saintsbury finds Darcy believable because his pride was spoilt rather than damaged at heart, so an honest shock like Elizabeth's refusal could truly change him.
George Saintsbury notes that Elizabeth Bennet is clever and quick-tongued but never ill-natured: she answers an attack well but never starts one.
In Pride and Prejudice, Austen shows a marriage where one partner's wit is never understood by the other, a reminder that people can share a home for decades and still miss each other.
In Pride and Prejudice, Austen shows how a first impression formed in one evening, on a single slight, hardens into a verdict the whole room repeats without checking it.
In Pride and Prejudice, Austen sets Jane's generous charity against Elizabeth's sharper eye, two kinds of good judgement that each need the other to see a person whole.
In Pride and Prejudice, Mary separates pride, which concerns what we think of ourselves, from vanity, which concerns what we want others to think of us.
In Pride and Prejudice, Elizabeth insists that a few evenings of acquaintance cannot reveal a person's real character, a useful caution against judging too quickly.
In Pride and Prejudice, Darcy's contempt softens once he watches Elizabeth closely, showing how careful attention can change what we see in someone we had dismissed.
In Pride and Prejudice, Mary argues that feeling should be guided by reason and effort matched to what is needed, a sensible reminder that good intentions still need judgement.
In Pride and Prejudice, Elizabeth walks three muddy miles alone to nurse her sick sister, showing that loyalty to family is worth a little discomfort and a lot of effort.
In Pride and Prejudice, Bingley sees Elizabeth's muddy walk as love for her sister, while his sisters see only the mud, showing how generous eyes find the good in what spiteful eyes ignore.
In Pride and Prejudice, Bingley says a family's connections would not make its members less agreeable, a plain reminder to judge people by their character rather than their relations.
In Pride and Prejudice, Elizabeth tells Bingley that a plain, easily read character is no less estimable than a deep and intricate one, a fair reminder that honest simplicity has its own worth.
In Pride and Prejudice, Darcy warns that the appearance of humility is often carelessness or an indirect boast, a sharp reminder to look past how someone presents themselves.
In Pride and Prejudice, Elizabeth argues that agreeing to a friend's request can come from affection rather than weakness, while Darcy holds that agreement should rest on conviction.
In Pride and Prejudice, Elizabeth is not hurt by Darcy's scrutiny because she cares too little for his good opinion to be wounded by it, a quiet kind of self-possession.
In Pride and Prejudice, Darcy names his own faults plainly, a stubborn temper and slow forgiveness, and that honest self-knowledge is worth more than pretending to have none.
In Pride and Prejudice, Mr Collins is a mix of pride and servility, with self-importance resting on a borrowed position, a sharp study of how status can make a person both grand and small.
In Pride and Prejudice, Elizabeth takes Wickham's charming account of Darcy without hearing the other side, a warning that a likeable storyteller can mislead us most when we already want to agree.
In Pride and Prejudice, Elizabeth tells Darcy that those who never change their opinion must be sure to judge properly at the start, a fair point that firm people carry the burden of getting first judgements right.
In Pride and Prejudice, Elizabeth rejects Miss Bingley's sneer that a man's descent proves his guilt, a clear stand against judging people by birth rather than by their conduct.
In Pride and Prejudice, Elizabeth will not be swayed by a friend's defence of a man, since that friend has learnt the story from one side only, a habit worth keeping when we hear someone's account second hand.
In Pride and Prejudice, Elizabeth refuses Mr Collins plainly and does not let him reinterpret her no as encouragement, a clear and honest answer that spares both of them false hope.
In Pride and Prejudice, Mr Bennet, pressed by his wife, asks only for the free use of his own understanding, a good reminder to keep your own judgement when others push you to decide.
In Pride and Prejudice, Elizabeth tells Jane that she must decide for herself, weighing what she values against other people's disapproval, a good reminder that the wishes of others should not make your choice for you.
In Pride and Prejudice, Jane Austen shows Charlotte Lucas choosing security over romance with her eyes open, knowing the happiness she hopes for is uncertain.
In Pride and Prejudice, Elizabeth fears for her sister's happiness and cannot stop the worry from returning, even though she knows it will not help Jane.
In Pride and Prejudice, Jane refuses to think ill of those who hurt her and takes her disappointment with grace, showing that generosity can be a quiet kind of strength.
In Pride and Prejudice, Mrs. Gardiner's loose talk of being "violently in love" hides how little anyone actually knows, and Austen shows how a vague word can stand in for real evidence.
In Pride and Prejudice, Elizabeth admits her attraction to Wickham rather than pretending otherwise, and promises only to be careful. Honest self-knowledge is the first step to sound judgement.
In Pride and Prejudice, Elizabeth checks her own heart honestly and finds she was never truly in love, which lets her wish Wickham well without bitterness. Looking closely at your own feelings keeps you free of resentment.
In Pride and Prejudice, Charlotte Lucas makes a comfortable home within an imperfect marriage by choosing what to hear and what to notice. Contentment is often a matter of where you put your attention.
In Pride and Prejudice, Elizabeth judges Lady Catherine by her manner rather than her rank, and finds that grand titles and wealth look less frightening once you see them clearly.
In Pride and Prejudice, Elizabeth plainly argues that the youngest sister has as much right to enjoyment as the eldest, and says so to a formidable woman. Speaking up for fairness takes courage.
In Pride and Prejudice, Elizabeth finds peace on a quiet path that nobody else values, out of reach of someone else's curiosity. A small private place to think can make a hard season bearable.
In Pride and Prejudice, Elizabeth refuses to be cowed by a grand household, and answers the attempt to intimidate her with wit. Not being frightened by others' airs is its own kind of courage.
In Pride and Prejudice, Darcy admits he is ill at ease with strangers, and Elizabeth notes that he could have tried harder. Austen shows how a reserved manner can look like pride to people who do not yet know the person.
In Pride and Prejudice, Elizabeth says that whether a distance is near or far depends on the circumstances, such as money and the cost of travel. Judge what is close or far by the actual conditions, not by a fixed rule.
In Pride and Prejudice, Colonel Fitzwilliam passes on a story he has only half guessed at, and Elizabeth's view of Darcy hardens around it. Austen shows how a secondhand half-truth can shape how we judge a person.
In Pride and Prejudice, Elizabeth checks her own anger by admitting she does not know all the particulars, and says it is not fair to condemn someone on partial facts. Being fair before you judge is a discipline worth keeping.
In Pride and Prejudice, Elizabeth's dislike of Darcy began with small everyday manners, not one grand offence. Austen shows that character tends to reveal itself in how someone treats people in ordinary moments.
In Pride and Prejudice, Darcy says he did not judge Jane's feelings by what he wished, but by what he honestly observed. Checking whether your hopes are bending your judgement is a useful habit.
In Pride and Prejudice, Darcy's letter owns one of his actions as beneath him and does not try to excuse it. Naming a specific mistake plainly is more believable than a general apology.
In Pride and Prejudice, Elizabeth reads Darcy's letter with a strong prejudice and tries to reject its facts at once. Austen shows how anger and a settled opinion can make us refuse evidence we would rather not hear.
In Pride and Prejudice, Elizabeth trusted a charming stranger's story because of his manner, and only later sees how little evidence she had. Charm is not the same as proof.
In Pride and Prejudice, Elizabeth realises that her pride in her own judgement had hidden her vanity and her prejudice. Being willing to see your own mistake, even when it humbles you, is where wisdom starts.
In Pride and Prejudice, once Elizabeth sees she judged Darcy unfairly, her anger turns on herself and she can feel compassion for him, even though that does not change her answer. Being fair to someone is not the same as agreeing with them.
In Pride and Prejudice, Elizabeth is shocked to hear in Lydia's talk an attitude she once half-believed herself. Noticing your own old habits in other people is a useful way to keep growing.
In Pride and Prejudice, Elizabeth sees that speaking with bitterness grows out of the prejudices she let herself feed. Harsh words often come from a judgement that was never checked.
In Pride and Prejudice, Elizabeth chooses not to spread what she has learned about Wickham, knowing that public verdicts can ruin people and that she cannot prove everything. Restraint is sometimes the fairer course.
In Pride and Prejudice, Elizabeth comes to see that the gentleness which first delighted her was partly a performance. Time and honest attention can show us what a first impression hid.
In Pride and Prejudice, Elizabeth finds that an event she had longed for does not bring the satisfaction she expected, so she looks ahead to something new. Anticipation keeps hope alive, but it can also keep the present from being enjoyed.
In Pride and Prejudice, Elizabeth notes that a plan where every part promises delight rarely works out, and that some small expected vexation can keep big disappointment away. Expect a few ordinary frictions and do not build your hopes on perfection.
In Pride and Prejudice, Elizabeth decides that it is her business to be satisfied, and her temper to be happy, and turns a disappointed plan into a good trip. Choosing your attitude is part of the job.
In Pride and Prejudice, Elizabeth hears the housekeeper speak warmly of Darcy and begins to doubt her firm opinion. The people who work closely with someone can show you a side your own experience missed.
In Pride and Prejudice, Darcy meets Elizabeth's relations with courtesy even though he has just discovered who they are. Real good manners do not depend on who is watching or what someone can do for you.